LONE MOTHER.

The news which is catching all the attention now is "Renu Desai getting married for the second time". As soon as she announced about her second marriage,  some of the weird people started commenting, trolling her in a weird  manner.
               RENU DESAI_is an artist, editor,director, writer,producer beyond all these, she is one of the most wonderful inspiring women. She is a multi-talented women who has her own identity. Bt unfortunately, none of these characters define her except as a PK's ex-wife.
             The people who are bullying her now should remember one thing,she was legally divorced with her ex-husband and now she has her own life which could be moulded in her own way. None of us have the right to question her.
      As she is in the media industry, people are making circus out of her life. There are millions of such women in our country,who are leading the toughest life as a single parent. In our patriarchal society,we can come across, where only a mother raising her kids in a single parenting without father but never, the father without mother.
         Divorced Women are still  an uncomfortable subject everywhere.
        " when a man can marry as many times as he can,why cant a women do the same"?. Why women re marriage  isn't accepted in India. Constitutionally,women have been guaranteed equal rights. It's our society which has made unwarranted norms for them. Our society is judgemental,gossipy they are more interested in other people's lives than their own.
Single parenting is one of the toughest task. Always remember, the word "FAMILY"  can be defined only by a father and mother with their children not just one parent. When it takes "TWO" to make a child,then it should take "TWO" to raise the child. There is nothing wrong in a women getting re married. However, we should accept whatever the life offers and "MOVE ON". We should stop thinking about the society,lead life in your own terms.
      "There is no right for anyone to suppress one's desires".

Lastly,congrats to Renu Desai mam(a women with golden heart)  for taking such an inspiring step in her life. Have a joyous life.
      "It's your life,you have your own rights to make yourself happy".
     
                                                     By
.                                        Raveena durgam.